Falling for a polyamorous guy changed the things I thought love was

Falling for a polyamorous guy changed the things I thought love was

By Rianna Walcott , PhD researcher, activist, musician

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I offered my boyfriend that is current a because their gf seemed great.

They’d a available relationship, I happened to be solitary, and I also figured that when this gorgeous girl thought he had been worth her time, he’d be good fit for me personally too.

By our very first date that they had parted means, in which he ended up being single… ish. He identified himself as polyamorous, that wasn’t a new come personallyr to me.

I wasn’t polyamorous but I became accustomed dating people that are several a time. It absolutely was my method of keeping every person to their feet and I was helped by it concentrate on the things I desired from a relationship without compromising back at my boundaries. I became less likely to want to ‘settle’ out of a fear I would personallyn’t find someone else, or to tolerate relationship flags that are red.

Because of the full time our date that is first came I became also anticipating learning more info on his viewpoint and comparing records on juggling lovers. (mehr …)